I realize its been some years since you left this message on this website, I hope you see this reply. I'm not totally sure, but I think your mother, Veronica, was my aunt. My father is Joseph Stanley Kilmer and his parents were John Jacob Astor Kilmer and Lena Lucy Harriet Ayres Kilmer. They had 14 children: John Millard, Katherine Elizabeth, Charles Edward, Neal Eugene, Jean Velda, Emma Annette, Mercieda Faye, Joseph Stanley, James Arthur, Marie, Ellen, Phyllis Iona, Bradley Richard, Veronica Joyce. We very well may be cousins. It would be great to talk with you and get to know you. I would love to share any information about the family that you would like to know. I look forward to hearing from you.