I have just seen your posting about Sarah E. Stanbery. I have several Sarah "Elizabeth" Stanberys, but only one that just might be who you are looking for--if you haven't already received the info.
Sara Elizabeth Stanbery, b. 1851, dau. of John Crossman Stanbery, b.12/13/1825, Patterson, NJ, d. 6/18/1886 and Rachel Hopper Stanbery, b. 1828, d. 1909. John Crossman's parents were Isaac Stanbery, b. 10/9/1780 Flushing, LI, NY and Sarah Rogers. Isaac's parents were Joshua Stanbery, b. 1750, Scotch Plains, NJ and Isabelle DeCamp.
Have no additional info on Sarah Elizabeth, so can just hope this is the right one.