Hi Linda, My gggrandfather, Robert Calvin Stitt was a brother to your Jacob. Jacob's 2nd wife was a widow, Elizabeth Conner, who died in a mental institution in Logansport, Ind. Their children: Jacob, b.1873, James, b.1875 and a child who probably died young, all born probably in Nebraska. Step children of Jacob (children of widow Connor) were "Till" Connor and a daughter, surname Connor. I have some more info on this line but it is long & drawn out.